My dog is my best friend. There, I said it. She makes me smile every day and does things that literally have me snorting I laugh so hard. She listens, she makes me happy and she is there for me always. That’s the definition of a friend right?
As a human we all have this basic desire to do things that make us feel good about ourselves. We work all year round for that holiday or we buy a new pair of shoes because they winked at us and made us feel special. We exercise to release feel good endorphins or we have sex to…well…you know š
Friends are the beings that leave footprints on your soul and a smile on your face. They love you for you and they do so without judgement or jealousy. For me a life without friends would be a lonely place. My crazy, irrational, emotional, sensitive, geeky self is enhanced by the beings I choose to have around me and call my buddies.
People come and go but these guys, these guys are wedged firmly in my heart.
Have you ever had one of those moments where you meet someone new for the first time and you just know? It takes something so simple like a comment or a common interest or a joke that no one else would think was funny and that’s it – you know you have years ahead of you filled with tequila, spooning and tears. You are going to speak to this person so much about the same shit yet never get bored or you’re going to have no contact with them for years and when you meet again, it’s like you saw them just yesterday.
This person is going to slut drop with you on the dance floor like the best of them, eat that piece of cake when you’ve had your heart broken and help to pick you back up when you make a mistake. They are there when you are at your best and there when you are at your worst and they want nothing in return; they do it just because.
When you have these people in your life you stop thinking that friendship is based on quantity and start to realise that it’s about quality. You feel whole and accepted – you are a part of something that cannot be faked and is not based on what you do or don’t have. You start to understand more about the person you are as you see it mirrored in the friends around you.
Without a shadow of a doubt friendship is such an important thing when it comes to being your best self and we cannot expect to live a positive life if we surround ourselves with negative people. Life is too short to waste on people that bring you down and stepping away from those that do doesn’t make you a bad person, it makes you an honest one.
My friends enhance all of the good qualities I have and help to silence the bad ones. They make me feel lucky and at times, a little big headed because I think to myself “If these amazing people are making an effort to be in my life, does that mean Iām a little bit amazing too?ā
It doesn’t matter if you have one or several of these friends in your life; what matters is that you make them feel just as lucky as you do right now…